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I have reconsidered.

I have reconsidered.

I love to travel. I love everything about it: seeing new places, getting away, meeting new people, eating at new restaurants, taking pictures to remember the places I have been. All of it.

A few weeks ago I made the declaration that I would like to start traveling abroad. I have only been to two countries outside of the United States, and many of you might not take me too seriously when I tell you that one is lowly Canada. The good news is that I am able to say that my experience in Canada is not limited to driving an hour south and heading into Windsor, nor is it to any attempts to reduce driving time between Michigan and the Northeastern US.

My other trip was to England for a 10 day trip with my family when I was about 15 years old. While we were able to stay very busy and cover much ground in the time I was there I would still like to go back. There were a few things specifically I would like the opportunity to see that were not feasible due to time constraints on the first trip, and many other things I am sure I do not even know about.

In my adventures abroad I would like to start with a return trip to London before I hit mainland Europe. For the most part, other places do not excite me as much as Europe. The exception is that I would truly love to visit Australia and New Zealand.

I have not reconsidered in the fact that I no longer desire to travel to these places, but rather in the timeframe I follow to get me there. While before I wanted to begin saving money for my first trip to Europe (hopefully) in 2007, I believe now I would prefer to push that back.

I know this will sound horribly boring to most of you, but that which I have chosen as having higher priority than Europe is right here at home. I want to travel to other cities in other states that I have never visited. Ultimately I would like to be able to say that I have been to all 50 states, but that is secondary to my goal to see more places.

I actually proposed this very idea to at least one of my friends from college. Since a handful of use scattered when handed our diplomas, reunion now requires travel. Rather than meeting in Philadelphia year after year, I suggested that we pick a new city each year. This would accomplish many things in my mind. No one would feel slighted because they have to pay travel expenses since everyone has to pay them. In other words, the people who did not move out of Philadelphia after graduation have to buy a plane ticket, too. We all have the opportunity to visit someplace we have never been. As years go by the chances of us finding a city where no one has been yet we all want to visit will dwindle, but that is perfectly acceptable. And, if anyone is concerned at all, you may leave any inhibitions you may have about your reputation in a local environment at home. We will all be away from that and able to enjoy ourselves relatively freely. I know my reasons do not sound like much, but I also do not think they need to BE much.

Though I tell you of my proposed idea to make these periodic trips, I do not take credit for the travel as it has come up. My friends from college have been able to travel to various parts of the country for different events, thus serving as a veritable reunion. For example they were together this past weekend in Austin, Texas following the Villanova University men's basketball team. The truth of the situation is consistent with the idea that I had proposed way back when. The problem is that while it was an idea well received and even in practice to a large extent, I have not been able to enjoy it. Constraints placed on my time (work and school) have kept me from making the trips.

As I know my schedule remains busy, I need to plan my trips when I am able. I have never really sat down and made a list of the cities I want to see period, let alone in any particular order. I think it is better this way anyhow; I am freer to decide based upon mood, seasonality and the fluctuating cost of plane fare.

I guess it would be nice to find someone to come along. I would prefer it that way, actually. I am looking forward to it already. Europe can wait. After all, it is not going anywhere. So do not be surprised if I call you and ask you to meet me in Seattle, Washington.

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Comment from: Moyer [Visitor] · http://moyer.privatjokr.com
I hear Hays, Kansas is gorgeous this time of year. Oh, and as the overexposed t-shirts tell me, Ithaca is Gorges. Hilarious, really. No, seriously, keep wearing that shirt. You know who you are, That Guy.
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Comment from: Rachel [Visitor] · http://www.dvdaficionado.com/dvds.html?cat=1&id=button
My grandpa visited all 50 states before he died. Sure, some he just drove through, but he still counted them.
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Comment from: Sugar [Visitor]
Looking for a traveling partner, huh?!?!
PermalinkPermalink 01/18/06 @ 20:39
Comment from: Sonja Farmer [Visitor]
Sorry mate but I dont care how you wrap it up, but if you havent visited at least four other countries then you havent travelled but 'visited'.
I had heard that the there is a very low average of passports for USA citizens (query here; do you have actually one yourself?) Travel is about experiencing other cultures and broadening the mind. If you are only visiting within the US then that criterion is not met. I come from the beautiful country of New Zealand. At the last count I have been to at least 13 countries with another two to add this year. These range from tropical island to the ancient cultures of Greece and Egypt. THAT is travel.
However if you ever fulfil your wish/desire to come to New Zealand look us up and experience another culture, not the same one in a different town!!!
PermalinkPermalink 01/25/06 @ 15:53
Comment from: Privatjokr [Member] Email · http://www.privatjokr.com
Sonja,

I agree with you 100%. Even though I do think it is all relative. There are Americans who have not even ventured out of their own state let alone the country. And there is variance between the microcosmic "cultures" of the individual states, though in no way will I compare that to the differences between cultures of two separate countries. At least that is what I tell myself to help me sleep at night ;).

The biggest factors for my decision are based in the financial and in companionship. I know enough people in different cities (some still that I have not visited) where I can bypass hotels and only have to pay for airfare and meals. And I am not saying that it cannot be done, but I would like to see a plane ticket to another country for under $200.

I do not have anyone to visit in other countries, nor do I really have any friends...that like to travel very much. I am working on that, however.

And no, I do not have a passport, so I fit perfectly into your low average argument. Someday though.

I know that my experience on the road is very limited, but I have to start somewhere. My family did little to no traveling as I grew up. The trip to London would never have happened had it not been a gift to us. I am just trying to walk before I run. Or crawl before I walk, if you prefer.
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